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After a day working in the XORG_UPGRADE:
---> Packages processed: 0 done, 258 ignored, 128 skipped and 1 failed
That's a big improvement over last night, when half failed. The hard
part wasn't gstreamer, but all the new X11 library and header dependencies.
UPDATE: The even harder part was graphics/cairo, which seems to depend
on some X make tools and headers which aren't in it's dependencies.
UPDATE UPDATE: Fixed in ports.